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Beti Bachao PAR Beti Mat Padhao!

                                     YES! Don’t educate her otherwise no one will marry her. Have you ever heard when people taunts like this to a girl or to her parents – Jyda mat padhao ladka nahi milega; kyun padh rahi hai itna? Time pass kar rahi hai shadi tak? ; abhi mat padh sasural jaake padhna; ladkiyo ko padhana he nahi cahhiye bahut jaban chalne lagti hai; bas graduation tak ho gai padhai ab shadi kardo; jaldi shadi karne se adjustment mein dikkat nahi hoti and baad mein ladka bhi nahi milega ; areey jyada padhi likhi hai ghar ka kya kaam karegi and many more comments like these.These words are often heard by those daughters whose parents has seriously taken the slogan ‘ Beti Bachao, Beti Padhao ’. They believed that it is equally important to educate the daughter as son because they know how important it is to be educated in today's era. Now i am in my late twenties,i...

Infectious Humor

                                People with a good sense of humor have a better sense of life Yes that's right! Only that person can survive in today's world who knows how to laugh at themselves .Now a days frustration is steeping among the youngsters. It is the new trend, people forgot how to be happy, they find reasons to make their life more miserable and downhearted.In trivial issues in life they feel frustrated and stressed, they often forget that you only get life once, it is precious,so relish it. Sometimes in life i also feel that life is nothing but just a piece of blank old paper,which is about to get tear off and nothing important is written on it.Life seems meaningless.Whenever i feel stressed out i make fun of myself and situations i face in my life. I surf on internet and watch funny videos. I remember all those lame jokes which my friends and i cracked long ago, then i go and sleep with a...

I miss the old ME

Yes I miss the old me! Sometimes in life you go so high and far that you fail to realize that you have left something long ago which by then was impossible to leave; Sometimes you miss those old moments and feelings.How time travels, takes us along with it and leaves us at a station which we never wanted to be in.All of a sudden one day you look into the mirror and realize that something substantial has left behind and now it is hard to catch. Now we have covered ourselves up with some sort of dual identity. But one day I was thinking that I am not the same person as before , I got irritated with the fact that why I have changed.I couldn’t help it, then I gone down again on the memory lane and started missing something badly. I miss ‘The Dancer’ It is not just that I don’t dance anymore or I don’t love it.I am the same crazy girl just like before.I used to dance at every possible songs and used to learn every step by watching videos numerous times. It is just that passion...

Dissimilar Similarity

With every unpleasant experience in life ,some people becomes more emotionally stronger and on the other, there are some people who repel the human species. I think i am hanging in between these situations. I don’t know whether i became anti social or i understood that people won't understand ,so i stopped venting out my emotions to them. Meanwhile when this roller coaster is rolling in my mind ,God has made me meet two people of vast dissimilarity. One was the 4 years old (My friend’s little kid) and on the other one was the 64 years old, a retired school teacher( Whom I met while i was traveling) and they both gave me some priceless lessons for life .But I felt a very unusual connection and similarity between them .I felt the same comfort while talking to that kid and to that lady, felt the same happiness and felt like talking to them for hours. Then I was wondering what is the similarity between these two people who are so dissimilar and that has provoked me to think more ab...

YES! Money can buy happiness BUT'

Let’s make a castle in the sky ! Just imagine you're sitting in a gigantic room where the walls are painted with your favorite colors and it has all the stuff once you have ever   dreamt to have in your bed room,like your favorite music system, food items, favorite movies ,favorite games ,million dollars,expensive furniture ,shimmering lights and ,all those other things that you relish are there with you which makes you high in spirits. This imagination must have landed you to that place where you want to go outright.Isn't it? Now imagine a parallel situations with this above mentioned situation.You are listening to music (in that exorbitant music system), your favorite song and you're dancing on it, BUT, you're all alone.Now imagine that you’re eating delightful and delectable breakfast,lunch and dinner ,BUT ,you're all alone on the dining table? You have million dollars BUT you don't have anybody to enjoy your vacations with? What if you don’t have anyone...

Two different Worlds

Sometimes in the journey of this uncertain life we don’t want to be fake but every day we face different situations which judge our personality and eventually our behavior. Sometimes life makes you fake. Being genuine is so difficult even if you want to, it is not possible to remain genuine when circumstances in life are looking at you like devil with two red horns. From the last few days I realized that some people are not suffering from 'Multiple Personality Disorder' but they are   living in two different world with entirely two different personalities or we can say   they must be having ‘Life Personality Disorder’. This disorder is probably the most toxicated disorder out of all the the mental disorders we have. In other disorders we don’t know the actual suffering but in this syndrome we are very well aware about its consequences but we have to live with this syndrome. I met many people I have observed they are silently suffering from this disease. People live in two wo...

Recognizing the Unrecognized

There are certain people in the world that they contribute to the world in an enormous manner , yet their identity is not recognized , they die in seclusion , they spread happiness and make our work a lot more easier, it is not easy to work without them, yet they exist without even making us realize and wants nothing in return, not even the admiration.Whenever we see them, we ignore them and pay no heed to them, we simply think how dirty and unhygienic they are,and move from that place, but have you ever paid a thought what the world would be without them?.Here are certain professions which I observed from my  life and i felt they are more richer then our  'Poor luxurious and lavish' lives. ‘ Balloon waale Bhaiya ’, the person who is selling the balloons (Happiness) are the most ignored person among all, but as a child I used to love them, by seeing them from the distant I used to feel so happy after seeing their one sight.I still remember some incidents from my childhoo...