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WOMEN

WOMEN!!   This five letter word says it all....This word is the epitome of   power, sacrifice, love, care,  and  deepness .This word in not merely a word, it is that combination of five letters that creates the most beautiful and amazing creation of god.Often people says women are hard to understand, they are so complex that even god can't understand what she wants?, but as a women i only want love , respect , care and freedom, is this that difficult to understand?. No one can understand her deepness and her love,. Often women are cited as dumb, fragile, emotional and better at household work, WHY? even we all have eyes , hands, legs, and power to do anything, just because we have a pair of boobs and a organ which is unlike men, we are weak?? HOW?. She has the power to give birth, she has the power to bleed every month, she is more sensitive, she is more calm, she plays the crucial role in society more then men, her power is beyond reach, no one can even think of...

SOME PROMISES

I am very excited to write this blog because today i am going to sum up all the things which i have learnt from the past 23 years of my life (though it is a very less time but, i am lucky enough to see some things in my life and that has taught me various lessons, now after passing through this, i feel that i am a better person now and want to tell you that how my life has a different meaning now and how happy i am after knowing and now i know the dynamics of life.There are 23 things which i have learnt and i have promised myself that i am going to implement this throughout my life and really want whoever reading it should also instill in his /her life.So here is the list of things: 1)   Firstly i ll start with "EDUCATION",my personal favorite subject, from my past i have learnt that   "education is power"   and it really is, it is a weapon from which you can get whatever you want, most of the evils exist in society is just because of lack of education...By te...

VIRUS

After seeing the title, you people will definitely wonder that may be i 'm writing this article on "computer virus" or any other virus, like which causes diseases and other infections. BUT ,I'm not talking about those viruses(these two above mentioned viruses are curable). I'm talking about the virus which is spreading like wildfire in this "super cool generation" and once you get infected by this virus, it it not at all amenable . THAT IS NONE OTHER THEN "LIQUOR/ALCOHOL" AND his brothers "DRUGS" . People of my generation thinks that it is a very cool thing to live in the house of these two brothers, it reflects your modernity , it reflects the western culture which people think that is the "developed one". Every youngster has a dream today that he/she wants to drink and get tipsy once in their lifetime(what kind of dream is this, i am surprised!), because according to them it relieves their tension for some moments an...

Confessions of a true self

This piece of writing is somewhere very disparate from my other writings, because i have never written an article in pessimism, my writings always have a ray of optimism in it, and always contains an element and teaching for a better tomorrow and a better way of living, but this article is somewhat shows you the mirror of my inner self(which is very unlike my "optimistic "I"). People says that the person who laughs a lot, entertains a lot, is the person very distressed and depressed inside,and this fact is completely true from every angle and that is my current situation.I was just thinking of writing this article since so long ,but i was so disinterested, and then I stretched my hand from writing this, because i caught by the fear of bringing my emotions here (this is the only thing i am very secretive about, i don't like when people sympathize with me, it gives me the sense of being a looser, who can't fight with their problems and brags off here all the...

WHY ISN'T MARRIAGE A CHOICE??

Again i'm pointing a finger at my culture(" the mahaan one"   i really don't want it, but i can't help it),  i don't like "one rule" which is bounded to every indian, like the other laws and rules which every one has to adhere it and, it is one of the rule that pisses me off every time i think about it .When someone pressurize something on you, least you are interested in that thing , in the same way indian culture implies the   "mandatory rule of marriage" , it's must ,whether you want to do it or not,   indian culture is made of marriage ,,, ,marriage is it's synonym , if you're not married then you are surely not good for something, there are following things which people might think if you are not married at an appropriate age. 'koi kami hogi ladke/ladki main' 'sagai chooti hui hai' "koi dhang ka rishta mil nahi raha hoga" , parents think that it's curse if their children are not getting mar...

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE-THE UGLIEST FORM OF VIOLENCE!

VIOLENCE is something that i hate from the bottom of my heart!.It's something that everyone abhors, everyone wants to be at peace, whether it's their personal life or professional life.But, as we are humans so we cannot ward off violence, we keep on doing it on every other day.It could be any trivial thing that leads to the violence in our daily lives.It's in many different forms and sizes,verbal, physical, small and big etc but the abominable and disgraceful form of violence according to me is "DOMESTIC VIOLENCE" ( which is a very broad word ). Every one says that dowry, rape, sati , verbal abuse, physical abuse, sexual abuse, assault are the biggest evils which a women face in INDIAN society, but these are the narrow terms and these could be sum up into the two terrible words and that is "domestic violence" . It's the biggest evil that persists in our orthodox and patriarchal society.I think the synonym for women(in our society) could be this one...

MERA BHARAT MAHAAN!!!!

IS IT? What do you guys think? Is actually our bhaarat mahaaan? Or it's just the cliched line which every Indian somewhere use it innocently without knowing the fact that what dirt we have inside our country? But we Indians are so generous, we still manage to say "mera bharat mahaaan" .Anyway, one song was used to be my favourite and that was "hai preet jahan ki reet sada, mai geet wahan ke gaata hoon, bharat ka rehne wala hoon,bharat ki baat sunata hoon" (film: purab aur pachim(1970) singer: mahendra kapoor music director: kalyan ji anand ji, lyrics: indeewar) sorry for the details, I'm updating your knowledge!!!....So where were we? yes, so whenever I hear this song I get goose bumps, I fill with the sense of patriotism, and I used to feel really proud of my country(which is very mahaaan!).But later I detected something different and bizarre about my country that I never wanted to feel but couldn't help from doing so!.I want to throw some light on ...