My Dreams of Positivity



We all have dreams , I have a dream of becoming a successful person in whichever field i step in , i have a dream of traveling the whole world alone, i have a dream of becoming a famous person. With all these casual and “everybody has these kind of” dreams ,i have a superlative dream of becoming a “positive person”, a person who always wears a smile no matter what evil people say about him , who always have a good kind words mixed in his saliva, who smiles no matter how many problems are hanging on his head, who always takes out something positive from every negative situation and his presence fills the whole room with the fragrance of positivity and endurance. Though , Right now i am not a very positive person, but ,recently i realized the importance of positivity. How it is so important to have a good and a quality life with inner contentment. It is easy to earn money, easy to get food, clothes, but, everyone is not blessed with a life of peace and contentment. Food, clothing and shelter is necessary for survival, but positivity is needed for a good and a successful life with inner happiness .I have realized that a positive person is better than 1000 persons  who have all the negative vibes circled around them. We all have had a series of heartbreaks, failures and disappointments ,we all have traveled in a train of negativity once in our life, if we are a positive person today, somewhere or somehow we were all negative once in our lifetime. What i have learnt that if you want to become a positive person, you should experience severe negativity in your life and then you can draw the line between “ what are you ” and” what were you “. I have certain dreams regarding positivity, i want to achieve it by becoming a positive person.

My first and foremost  dream  is to do pep talk, i want to become a motivational orator. There is a very famous quote that” the best way to motivate oneself is you can do it by motivating others”. I have a dream that i would motivate and encourage those people who thinks that they are not worthy of anything, who thinks that they are useless, i  just want to teach them that life is too big, and what you are feeling now, it is just a temporary phase. I would be standing in front of those people who think they are useless beings on earth , and just sing these lines from the movie tara rum pum –“zindagi mein koi bhi kami ho, palko pe jo jara bhi nami ho, aansu na bahana tum, dukh na uthana tum, haaar na jaana duniya se, darna kabhi na tum, rehna na gum sum, hans ke batana duniya se, aayegen phir se din khushiyo ke, badlega yeh mausum.”Isn’t it true? Yes, it is..Life and circumstances can never be the same , it is keep on changing then why to crib our present when we know that so many things are coming our way or i can say so many pleasant things are coming our way. So never get scared from the present situation, you will soon come out of it, and one day, you will look back and smile.

Second paragraph from tara rum pum – “koi aandhi jo aaye to aaye, dil mein hai jo diya bujh na paaye, kaali kaali raate ho, chahe jaisi baate ho, humko hai chalet rehna, job hi aaye mushkil, dare nahi kabhi dil , apna to hai yeh kehna , lamhe bhar ko chai ghata to, dhop na ho madham “.Never lose hope, Never let any expression, statement and situation let you down, Keep the fire inside you, let no one can fall water on that spark.

I hope that after achieving the highest positivity in my life, i wish i could make a difference in someone's life.I really want to bring the change. Just want people to know the importance of this wonderful life.



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