The Power of Love, Commitment and Loyalty


‘If someone thinks that love and peace is a cliche that must have been left behind in the sixties, that’s their problem. Love and peace are Eternal’- john lenon
Yes it is absolutely right! Love is one of the most profound feelings in the world, it cures people, it heals all the deep wounds .This feeling of ‘Being in love’ is incomparable and unmatchable. It is the only emotion in the world that makes you feel so foolish about yourself and at the same time you feel out of the world when your heart is dipped into the sea of love. Dedicating this to all the people who are fortunate, who are in love ,to all those who have someone always standing by their side, embrace the fact that at least you have someone to fight with, you can annoy someone and can drive someone crazy ;At least you have someone that you can celebrate your life with.It feels like the seventh heaven when you cuddle and hug the person you love.Don’t let your stupid little tiffs break your relationship, don’t let your ego be more egoistic ,it might destroy your beautiful home which you have nurtured it with your love,emotions and fantasies.It brings out the best in you if you are loving the right person. Not everyone is lucky enough to be loved back by the people whom they fall for. Don’t take the feelings of the person who loves you for granted .I know everyday we meet new people, there are so many people who are waiting to love you but, don’t change somebody’s perception about love just because you have options, just because there are some serious issues in your life.Fall in love only when you have courage to love and also when you have the nerve to prove it .

Whenever i felt love for someone,it has always empowered me, though it was not an easy road.It has taught me how to love selflessly and unconditionally.I always celebrated the feeling of being in love even if it has never worked out for me.I never cared whether someone loved me or not because i was always enough to love us both.People always crib when they get out of a relationship ,they start blaming love for this ,but the actual culprit is not love.It is the person who has hurt you should be blamed, you have the right to curse a person but not love.Don’t defame love because it is serene. 

In this rapidly changing world where people are also changing and also bringing the innovative yet classy form of relationships like break ups ,hook ups ,one night stands,friends with benefits .This four letter word ‘love’ has taken a back seat. It has lost its charm and magic.People neither understand the love nor the sacrifices one is making for them.They keep on brawling over trivial things, abusing at each other on irrelevant issues, not respecting each other, not ready to accept their mistakes, not ready to apologize and thinks that the person who is apologizing is weak and at fault ,but they might not be sorry but they are valuing the relationship more than the fights.All my life i have been taught to love others and to be nice with them.Now, when people got to know that it is causing harm to the body and the soul, they have come up with this ideology of “Loving oneself”.If you love yourself more than anybody in the world, there is no other best thing in the world like this ,but giving your love to someone is also mesmerizing .As quoted by someone ‘Love cures people, both the ones who give it and the ones who receive it.

It is completely alright if your relationship and love doesn’t work ,it is okay if someone doesn’t want to be with you,it is okay if you fall in love numerous times ,but the reason of your break ups and heart break should not be your disloyalty and cheating.This is a human emotion which keeps on changing ,move on with life, look forward and surely there is someone waiting to love you more than anyone else in the world.

Fall in love,be crazy and have fun ,because you never know when that person will disappear from your sight and you will never get a chance to love them again.Hug them,cuddle them and express that how much you love each other and how much you are mean to each other. Life is seriously very short. Express it and celebrate the love just like you celebrate the festivals.

Happy Valentines day!

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