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Beti Bachao PAR Beti Mat Padhao!

                                     YES! Don’t educate her otherwise no one will marry her. Have you ever heard when people taunts like this to a girl or to her parents – Jyda mat padhao ladka nahi milega; kyun padh rahi hai itna? Time pass kar rahi hai shadi tak? ; abhi mat padh sasural jaake padhna; ladkiyo ko padhana he nahi cahhiye bahut jaban chalne lagti hai; bas graduation tak ho gai padhai ab shadi kardo; jaldi shadi karne se adjustment mein dikkat nahi hoti and baad mein ladka bhi nahi milega ; areey jyada padhi likhi hai ghar ka kya kaam karegi and many more comments like these.These words are often heard by those daughters whose parents has seriously taken the slogan ‘ Beti Bachao, Beti Padhao ’. They believed that it is equally important to educate the daughter as son because they know how important it is to be educated in today's era. Now i am in my late twenties,i am observing the Indian culture like never before and i curse myself for observing it, be

Infectious Humor

                                People with a good sense of humor have a better sense of life Yes that's right! Only that person can survive in today's world who knows how to laugh at themselves .Now a days frustration is steeping among the youngsters. It is the new trend, people forgot how to be happy, they find reasons to make their life more miserable and downhearted.In trivial issues in life they feel frustrated and stressed, they often forget that you only get life once, it is precious,so relish it. Sometimes in life i also feel that life is nothing but just a piece of blank old paper,which is about to get tear off and nothing important is written on it.Life seems meaningless.Whenever i feel stressed out i make fun of myself and situations i face in my life. I surf on internet and watch funny videos. I remember all those lame jokes which my friends and i cracked long ago, then i go and sleep with a smile and think that this is one of the most funniest day of my life t

I miss the old ME

Yes I miss the old me! Sometimes in life you go so high and far that you fail to realize that you have left something long ago which by then was impossible to leave; Sometimes you miss those old moments and feelings.How time travels, takes us along with it and leaves us at a station which we never wanted to be in.All of a sudden one day you look into the mirror and realize that something substantial has left behind and now it is hard to catch. Now we have covered ourselves up with some sort of dual identity. But one day I was thinking that I am not the same person as before , I got irritated with the fact that why I have changed.I couldn’t help it, then I gone down again on the memory lane and started missing something badly. I miss ‘The Dancer’ It is not just that I don’t dance anymore or I don’t love it.I am the same crazy girl just like before.I used to dance at every possible songs and used to learn every step by watching videos numerous times. It is just that passion

Dissimilar Similarity

With every unpleasant experience in life ,some people becomes more emotionally stronger and on the other, there are some people who repel the human species. I think i am hanging in between these situations. I don’t know whether i became anti social or i understood that people won't understand ,so i stopped venting out my emotions to them. Meanwhile when this roller coaster is rolling in my mind ,God has made me meet two people of vast dissimilarity. One was the 4 years old (My friend’s little kid) and on the other one was the 64 years old, a retired school teacher( Whom I met while i was traveling) and they both gave me some priceless lessons for life .But I felt a very unusual connection and similarity between them .I felt the same comfort while talking to that kid and to that lady, felt the same happiness and felt like talking to them for hours. Then I was wondering what is the similarity between these two people who are so dissimilar and that has provoked me to think more ab